tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5188020231307453681.post7591154847865400223..comments2023-04-11T07:22:34.053-05:00Comments on I was half in love by the time we sat down: my sunday Jan 17.2010jeffreyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12908288123909662418noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5188020231307453681.post-59760152607410855682010-01-27T14:58:11.401-06:002010-01-27T14:58:11.401-06:00But isn't that bowl of hot noodles the best th...But isn't that bowl of hot noodles the best thing though. You hang up and there's this warm bowl with steam rising from it. You feel the heat in your hands, your focus on the noodles and the slices of green; you focus on what is at that moment - you on the floor in front of the speakers with a bowl of noodles, and you let those feelings pass by like clouds. You feel bad because you hold onto feelings that are as wisping and ephemeral as mist and interpret them to mean something more than they are - just a cloud in front of the sun that quickly will move on, if you just sit still long enough and let your bowl of noodles keep you there. :)<br /><br />I know what you mean. It seems most of the people (i.e. men) that I "enjoy" in my life leave me feeling so alone.Writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00445128608422429761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5188020231307453681.post-72676305296482353002010-01-22T14:09:46.376-06:002010-01-22T14:09:46.376-06:00and just for the record, I haven't gone there ...and just for the record, I haven't gone there yet. <br />I appreciate the advice.jeffreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12908288123909662418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5188020231307453681.post-52725546748660372142010-01-22T13:32:39.672-06:002010-01-22T13:32:39.672-06:00Maybe you should block his # so he can't call ...Maybe you should block his # so he can't call you anymore, and you can stop thinking of him for a while. It is human nature to behave in patterns. But walking around the same block is bound to make you dizzy.Mark in DEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12478832787656152843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5188020231307453681.post-79061538672170426182010-01-21T23:12:22.611-06:002010-01-21T23:12:22.611-06:00Or, the devil you know is better than the one wait...Or, the devil you know is better than the one waiting to pounce.<br /><br />Dipping into a dry well in hopes it will produce again is natural. Much easier than a long, uncertain journey to find a new source of fulfillment. You have to decide when you're ready to stop hoping for what used to be, and take a risk on something new, different.<br /><br />Different is scary. New isn't always satisfying.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing your thoughts.<br /><br />..........dholedolorahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715849844092553699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5188020231307453681.post-38643673674304015022010-01-20T11:27:13.369-06:002010-01-20T11:27:13.369-06:00Even in Japanese films the endings never change.
R...Even in Japanese films the endings never change.<br />Rather than walking around the same block, maybe go out a different door and turn the other direction?<br />We all must accept that we cannot change anyone. <br />I was once in a relationship with a guy that wouldn't come out and one last time, being introduced as his "friend" and I walked outside, turned the other direction, and never looked back.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15302478126147924237noreply@blogger.com